http://www.askdavetaylor.com/winxp_folder_directory_files_sorted_alphabetical_order/
read and try above if not try the ones below:
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Restore Sort order in Open and Save dialogs
http://www.dougknox.com/xp/scripts_desc/xp_opensaveorde...
Or...
To resolve this behavior, reset the default sort order:
1. Right-click Start, click Explore, and then click drive C.
2. On the View menu, click Details.
3. Click the Name column to sort items by name, press and hold down the CTRL
key, and then quit
Windows Explorer by clicking Close in the upper-right corner of the screen.
4. Release the CTRL key.
5. Restart your computer.
NOTE: You must perform these steps exactly as they are listed. For example,
do not quit Windows
Explorer by clicking Exit on the File menu.
From...
Items in "Open" and "Save As" Dialog Boxes Sorted Incorrectly
http://support.microsoft.com/default.aspx?scid=kb;EN-US;Q229070
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Try this:
Open a folder, make the arrangements you want.
Click "Tools" / "Folder Options".
Click "View" / "Apply to All Folders".
A confirmation message should appear, click "Yes".
Click "OK" to exit.
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