How can i make the default quick launch stay in its original places?

Original not like in the picture

 

To add an icon to the Quick Launch toolbar, the icon must first reside on the Desktop. Click on the shortcut, drag it to the Quick Launch toolbar, and release the mouse. You may release the icon in between other icons, or at the end of the toolbar. If you see a circle with a bar in it, you have not positioned the icon in a spot where it can be placed on the toolbar. Move the icon until the circle disappears, and then release.

from your picture it appears that your are dragging from the start menu to the quick launch bar and according to above from HERE that is not the correct way,

 

Sorry i sayed not Quick Launch but recent programs

 

not sure what your question is

 

I mean in the start menu when you installed xp and run it in the first time the start menu recent programs list

 

you want to put notepad on the start up menu and then have it stay there?

start / all programs / accessories / notepad , right click on notepad and choose pin to start menu then it will stay there, it does on my pc.

is the issue that you are doing exactly as above and then it goes away?